Facebook-f Twitter Youtube

Main Office Number: 1-877-390-6377

National Referral Number: 1-888-314-6075

Not sure which casino to choose?

OnlineCasinoLabs compares the top-rated online casinos available to Canadian players, covering everything from RTP rates to withdrawal speeds.

Referral Form
  • Aid & Attendance
    • Surviving Spouses
    • Veterans’ Stories
  • VetAssist®
    • Check Your Eligibility for the VetAssist Program
    • 0% Loan
    • Enhanced Care Plan Services
      • VetAssist Companion
    • FAQ
  • About
    • Leadership
    • Testimonials
    • News
    • Events
    • Press Release
  • Partners
    • Geriatric Social Workers & Case Managers
    • The Provider Opportunity
    • Testimonials from VetAssist Partners
    • Webinar Series
    • Regional Contacts
  • Blog
  • Careers
  • Contact
  • Referral Form
Menu
  • Aid & Attendance
    • Surviving Spouses
    • Veterans’ Stories
  • VetAssist®
    • Check Your Eligibility for the VetAssist Program
    • 0% Loan
    • Enhanced Care Plan Services
      • VetAssist Companion
    • FAQ
  • About
    • Leadership
    • Testimonials
    • News
    • Events
    • Press Release
  • Partners
    • Geriatric Social Workers & Case Managers
    • The Provider Opportunity
    • Testimonials from VetAssist Partners
    • Webinar Series
    • Regional Contacts
  • Blog
  • Careers
  • Contact
  • Referral Form
Home / Assistive Technology Saves the Life of a New Mexico Widow

Assistive Technology Saves the Life of a New Mexico Widow

We’ll be performing system updates Wednesday evening, August 27st from 9:30 PM to 11:30 PM CT. The website may be temporarily unavailable at times during this period. We are sorry for any inconvenience.

Assistive Technology Saves the Life of a New Mexico Widow

July 12, 2021
Written by
Karolina Szot HungryMedia
Bonita Hoyle is embracing her new assistive technology, claiming it's simple and fun. Unlike other Alexa® devices, her VetAssist Companion® is pre-programmed and allows
her call for emergency help.

“It’s incredible what we have nowadays. I’m a country bumpkin — when I was growing up, we didn’t have 911,” says Bonita Hoyle, an 86-year-old grandmother. Lately, she has taken to the latest new assistive technology called VetAssist Companion® with gusto. “It’s wonderful to me, to be able to speak and get a response,” she said of her 24/7 voice-activated, medical alert system, complete with the fun and intelligence of Alexa®. “It couldn’t be simpler. It’s kind of fun.”

What is Assistive Technology (AT)?

Assistive technology includes any equipment modified or customized, software or service that allows disabled people to increase, maintain, or improve functional capabilities.

Voice-activated, Pre-Programmed Assistive Technology

The Companion system is designed for seniors. Bonita’s was also pre-programmed just for her to call family members and friends. It’s assistive technology that comes ready right out of the box.

At first, Bonita began learning to use her system for day-to-day chores.

With the VetAssist Companion, it's simple and easy to video chat and make video calls with just your voice.
“I use (the Alexa function) a lot for a timer,” she said. “I have macular degeneration, so I can’t see well. I don’t dare put anything on the stove without a timer.” It wasn’t long before her VetAssist Companion was a literal lifesaver when Bonita needed medical help.

Alexa, Call for Help!

“For several days, I was getting weaker and weaker, but there was nothing specific,” she said. “One night, I woke up at 3:30 a.m. and thought, ‘That’s enough of this.’” Thanks to the preprogrammed VetAssist Companion, she could summon 911 easily. “All I have to do is say, ‘Alexa, call for help.’” The response team that answered her call and dispatched emergency paramedics also alerted her family members who live nearby.

Bonita spent two nights in the emergency room to check her oxygen levels. Her blood pressure was too high, she was having shortness of breath, and eventually, the ER did a urine test that showed a bladder infection. Soon, she was back at home and feeling better with greater appreciation for assistive technlogy.

Bonita Had No Idea that She Qualified for VetAssist

VetAssist Companion technology is just one facet of the VetAssist Program®, which covers a variety of services, including an in-home caregiver, all with no out-of-pocket costs for eligible wartime veterans or their surviving spouses. “I didn’t even know about it. It’s like an angel for me, the whole VetAssist Program,” says Bonita.

Married and Raising a Family in Out West 

Bonita was married to Glen, a Korean War vet, for almost 70 years. They wed in 1951 when they were teenagers. They moved around the West a number of times, living in Dallas and Albuquerque with their six children before settling in Farmington, New Mexico. She had a 30-year career in cosmetology and saw something of what could happen as people age and become less self-sufficient. “I had seen people who wouldn’t give up driving,” she said. She didn’t want to be that person.

Bonita beat a number of challenges over the years, including being diagnosed with breast cancer at 78 and her husband becoming an alcoholic because of back pain.

When Bonita was in her 80s, she and Glen moved to the Farmington/Kirtland area, in the northwest corner of New Mexico, where two of their daughters lived; a third daughter lived nearby as well. By then, their family expanded to include 19 grandchildren. “I didn’t want to make our kids travel long distances to help us out,” she said. When she was 85, “our kids had moved us to a new home,” but almost before the Hoyles had time to settle in, everything changed. Glen died five weeks later and their oldest daughter and Bonita’s twin sister also died around then.

How Bonita Found Out That She Qualified

Bonita Hoyle, seated with Bernadette Alarid, co-owner and manager of Caregivers in Your Home. Bernadette knew her client was a candidate for the VA's Aid and Attendance benefit and referred her to VetAssist.
In June 2020, when Bonita needed help with home and health issues, she called Caregivers in Your Home and connected with co-owner and manager Bernadette Alarid. She had been getting help from another service, but that closed because of COVID-19. “For the most part, I can take care of myself, but I needed help with cleaning and shopping. Bernadette came out to interview me, but they charged $24 an hour, and I said I couldn’t afford that,” Bonita said. “Bernadette asked if my husband or I had been in the service.” Thanks to Glen’s Army service, Bonita was able to join the Veterans Home Care® family and now has the security of the VetAssist service. “That was like a godsend.” Caregivers in Your Home is one of 4,000+ home care agencies in VetAssist’s national provider network. “We’ve had many VetAssist clients,” says Bernadette. “It’s wonderful for our business and our clients. “VetAssist has experts that check eligibility to determine if a senior should apply for the VA’s Aid and Attendance benefit. Next, they help with the VA application. It can get messy and complicated gathering medical and military records, but VetAssist offers that service at no charge. Clients like Bonita are both relieved and appreciative.” Bonita is still feisty and proud of her ability to survive life’s challenges. “I’m old school,” she says with pride. “I get dressed up to go out.”

How to Get Care and the Latest Assistive Technology

Veterans Home Care’s VetAssist Program, including the VetAssist Companion technology, is available with no-out-of-pocket costs to those who qualify. Others can purchase the same technology service, branded as SmartCompanion, through the Veterans Home Care family of companies.

If you are a wartime veteran or veteran’s surviving spouse,who wants to remain independent at home despite health issues, or a loved one acting on their behalf, contact us today. Like Bonita Hoyle, you might find that VetAssist is just what you need to feel safe, secure and cared for at home, equipped with the latest assistive technology for fun and for emergencies. Call 888-314-6075.

Contact Us

National Headquarters:

11975 Westline Industrial Drive, St. Louis, Missouri 63146

Phone Number: 877-390-6377

Free Consultation and Referrals:

1-888-314-6075

Fax Referrals:

1-800-640-7988

Follow Us

CHECK YOUR ELIGIBILITY
Free service for yourself and or loved one

  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

Or Call 1-888-314-6075

The VetAssist® Program is offered exclusively by the Veterans Home Care® family of companies.

Veterans Home Care® and the VetAssist® Program are not part of any government agency and are not affiliated with the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA).

National Association for Home Care and Hospice member logo
Independent Home Care Alliance logo
Home Care Association of America logo
National Aging in Place Council member logo

Aid & Attendance

Surviving Spouses

VetAssist® Program

GovAssist

FAQ

Partners

Privacy

Contact

News

Careers

FOLLOW US

Facebook-f Twitter Youtube Linkedin-in
BBB Accredited Business Award Logo

Veterans Home Care, LLC | Veterans Home Care of California, LLC | Veterans Home Care NYJ, LLC | Veterans Home Care of Texas, LLC | VetAssist, LLC | VetAssist Atlantic, LLC | VetAssist Central, LLC | VetAssist Nevada, LLC | VetAssist Pacific, LLC | VetAssist West, LLC

Check Your Eligibility

Check Your Eligibility

  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.
  • Aid & Attendance
    • Surviving Spouses
    • Veterans’ Stories
  • VetAssist®
    • Check Your Eligibility for the VetAssist Program
    • 0% Loan
    • Enhanced Care Plan Services
      • VetAssist Companion
    • FAQ
  • About
    • Leadership
    • Testimonials
    • News
    • Events
    • Press Release
  • Partners
    • Geriatric Social Workers & Case Managers
    • The Provider Opportunity
    • Testimonials from VetAssist Partners
    • Webinar Series
    • Regional Contacts
  • Blog
  • Careers
  • Contact
  • Referral Form

Saul Avila, SetxHomeCare

“VetAssist is a great service. There are benefits and services available that veterans don’t know about. Nurses and social workers dont’t know about them either, so it’s great to educate the community. The veterans can get services at home, and that’s where they want to be: in their homes.

How long have you been working with VetAssist

“7 years”

What’s your experience working with VetAssist?

“I started with the local Regional Manager. He was a huge help getting this going – the process of helping patients get their documents together, everything they need to get approval. “

What do you thing about the service?

“It’s great! It’s really needed in the community, because if the veterans were to apply for the benefits on their own, they are looking at a year process. We can start services usually within 30-45 days of everything being submitted. They’re able to stay in their own homes longer and get the help they need. “

What has been your experience helping veterans?

“It’s been a honor. They do not want to ask for anything. They want to do it on their own. When we reach out and tell them what’s available, they are very greatful. It means that a lot to me to be able to get it started for them, to make it easier on them. It’s a lot of paperwork.”

Cindy Stamps, AccentCare in Waco, Texas
with VHC Regional Manager, Nicole Figureo

“I’m a daughter, aunt, niece, and cousin of veteran, I did my research among companies similar services before I started working with VetAssist. I have exclusively worked with VetAssist for my veteras for three years.”

How long have you been working with VetAssist

“Exclusively for 3 years; did her research among companies with similar services”

What’s your experience working with Nicole?

“3 years. Also has a private pay; was doing her referrals, got a call from a girl with a strong NY accent looking for Marlena.”

What do you thing about the service?

“I love it because it’s easy to get in contact. They do what they say they’re gonna do. If there’s a mistake or miscommunication, they own up to whatever the problem is and do whatever they can to get it fixed. I have a Robin’s personal cell, David’s personal cel… They take the time to talk to me. I’ve been having problems with portal. It’s nice to know that if I have a question I will get it answered right away.I’m not patient when it comes to my veterans. “

What has been your experience helping veterans?

“It’s amazing. The VA do the veterans justice, and they are even less accomodating to the spouses. To know that I am able to help somebody to get the benefit and the care that they need to stay in their home is satisfying. I had to talk to a veteran the other day about his wife, and they do not qualify for the benefits because he’s already 100 % disabled. It breaks my heart because here are these men and women who served our country, and I can’t help them.”

“In central TX, we have a couple other agencies – I do not know how they are getting away with it – they are charging veterans $1200-1500 up front without a quarantee that they can get them benefits. The veterans reach out to me later and many tell me they do not qualify, and I say, how do you know you do not qualify?” I am often able to help them trough my VetAssist contact”

“I’m so thankful for Bonnie starting this company. I am very particular with my veterans, and I am gratefull that you guys are around, because you help me help my veterans.”

[video_lightbox_youtube video_id=”naT6xkMIvCs” width=”640″ height=”480″ anchor=”click here to open YouTube video” auto_thumb=”1″]

Robin Borders

Vice President, Sales

With more than a decade of senior care experience, Robin Borders is a respected leader in the home care industry.

Robin started at Veterans Home Care in 2012 in the Client Services Department, then joined the marketing team as a regional manager and was promoted to territory vice president. As a client service specialist, Robin monitored the home care of clients assuring they were getting the services they needed from a home care aide they trusted. Working as a regional manager, Robin made home visits to veterans and their families explaining the VetAssist Program.

Robin is instrumental in marketing our unique business model, educating the public on how we help people apply for a VA pension with Aid and Attendance and provide home care services. As a territory manager, Robin works with home care agencies and senior organizations across the country.

Prior to working at Veterans Home Care, Robin owned her own business as a manufacturer’s representative of restaurant equipment managing four states. Robin, a daughter of a Marine Korean War veteran and granddaughter of a Navy WWII veteran, grew up in St. Louis, Missouri and graduated with an associate degree from Florissant Valley Community College. Robin volunteers for the Alzheimer’s Association and is a member of the St. Louis Home Care Alliance.

Robin is a sought-after speaker and presenter based at our St. Louis, Missouri headquarters and oversees regional managers and company growth in 48 states

Howard Laiderman

Chairman

Howard began his career in his family’s automotive tire and auto parts wholesale and retail business which at one time was ranked 8th largest US tire dealer by Crane Publishing. He developed his skills in operations and executed marketing programs that resulted in sales from Fortune 500 companies including Walmart.

After the passing of Howard’s father, he ventured out on his own and started Ness Trading Company. With the help of his wife Bonnie and their two daughters, his new family operation quickly grew to one of the largest closeout and surplus specialists in the automotive parts and custom wheels industry.

Since 2003, Howard has worked with Bonnie growing Veterans Home Care to become the largest company of its kind offering in-home care to our deserving veterans through the unique VetAssist Program. Howard has been an integral part of the organization’s effort to brand the VetAssist Program and scale the business through provider contracting and client relationship management (CRM) technology.

Today Veterans Home Care has multiple locations throughout the country, and serves veterans in 48 states with a network of more than 4,000 home care providers. Veterans Home Care has also earned the Better Business Bureau’s Torch Award for Ethics and the Inc. 5000 Award of Fastest Growing Companies seven times.

Howard supports national veterans’ organizations and travels to Capitol Hill advocating for veterans and educating policymakers about the needs of veterans.

Bonnie Laiderman

Founder and Chairwoman Emeritus

As the founder and owner of Veterans Home Care®, Bonnie Laiderman has helped more than 20,000 veterans and their spouses receive in-home care through the unique VetAssist® Program.

Bonnie started the business in 2003 to answer a need in the military veteran community. Many veterans and their families don’t utilize available benefits from the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) due to a lack of awareness. As a caregiver for her late mother, Bonnie personally experienced the frustration of failing to access available VA benefits in her mother’s time of need.

Bonnie has overseen the growth of the company from a one-woman operation to become one of the largest women-owned companies in the St. Louis Metro Region with multiple locations throughout the country, serving veterans in 48 states with a network of more than 4,000 home care providers.

Veterans Home Care has also earned the Better Business Bureau’s Torch Award for Ethics and the Inc. 5000 Award of Fastest Growing Companies seven times.

Bonnie personally has been recognized with numerous awards including the:

  • KTVI-Fox2 News Most Remarkable Women
  • McKnight’s News Publications’ Hall of Honor
  • Missouri Athletic Club’s Women of Distinction
  • St. Louis Business Journal’s Most Influential Women
  • Ingrams Magazine’s 50 People You Should Know and
  • Missouri Council for In-Home Service’s

In addition to growing Veterans Home Care to become the largest provider of its kind in the industry, Bonnie has been a strong supporter of numerous charitable and social organizations with both a local and national impact. Wings of Hope and Lydia’s House have both benefited from Bonnie’s support to continue services to our most vulnerable in need. Bonnie also is active in the American Red Cross as: a Tiffany Circle member, (a national society of women leaders), a chairperson for the Service Armed Forces Committee and a mentor in the Society of Women Leaders.

Carmen Perry-Tevaga

Vice President, Strategic Partnerships

As Vice President of National Accounts, Carmen develops and supports a nationwide network of home care and other senior care providers for Veterans Home Care’s brands. Carmen is responsible for these valued stakeholder relationships, identifying sales opportunities and developing comprehensive growth strategies for all parties involved.

Carmen’s 20+ years of healthcare administration experience spans multiple levels of care from physician practices to renown hospitals and rehabilitation services.

Having an extensive consulting background and subject matter expertise in VA Aid and Attendance benefits for older adult care, she’s a well-received speaker, podcast guest and presenter.

Carmen serves on the Home Care Association of America’s (HCAOA) Veterans Affairs Committee and serves as a board member for the National Aging In Place Council, (NAIPC) with whom she co-wrote a book on senior care.

Donna Appel

Vice President, Marketing

In her role as Vice President, Marketing, Donna oversees VHC’s marketing outreach and branding. Donna has more than 35 years of experience in sales, sales training and marketing.

Her wealth of business expertise includes a focus on the needs of older adults, caregivers and family members in need of home care solutions. She’s a resource to veterans’ organizations and senior care providers across the country and champions the mission to assist veterans, their spouses and their families with resources for them to age in place.

Those resources include the VetAssist® Program, which helps deserving veterans stay at home, if it is their choice, by obtaining home care with no out of pocket cost. As a daughter (and daughter-in-law) of a WWII veteran and a Veterans Home Care client, Donna is proud to serve these heroes and their families.

Donna is a member of the Veterans Council of Broward County and is currently on the Advisory Council for the Aging and Disability Resource Center of Broward County. Ms. Appel also mentors at risk teenagers through Take Stock in Children, an organization that funds college scholarships for at risk youth. Donna is part of a team for the Stepp’n Up Shoe Project that collects new shoes for Broward County children and distributes them to The Children’s Home Society, Child Net, Kids in Distress, The Anne Stork Center and several other organizations.

Marcy Seeney

Senior Vice President of VetAssist

Marcy Seeney, a dedicated advocate for senior care, has been an integral part of Veterans Home Care since January 2006. With a wealth of experience in the industry, Marcy was among the pioneering team members who joined her family on the company’s mission to support Veterans and Surviving Spouses in accessing essential care while maintaining their independence and dignity at home.

Over her remarkable 17-year journey, they have positively impacted over 22,000 families by facilitating their eligibility for the Aid & Attendance pension. Marcy is passionate about serving others and ensuring their well-being. Marcy continues to make a difference through her unwavering commitment to excellence in senior care. Networking in this space, she led the way for St. Louis and helped teach and train those who have gone on in the community to careers in home care.

Evan Kaltman

Chief Revenue Officer

Since opening the local Veterans Home Care NYJ office in 2009, Evan has overseen the expansion of the operations to include all of New Jersey as well as Pennsylvania, New York and Delaware. Evan is based at our Cedar Knolls, New Jersey office and leads sales operations nationwide.

Evan is a member of the New Jersey Association of Veterans Service Officers (NJAVSO). In addition, he serves as a board member for Welcome Home Vets of NJ.

Evan is a sought-after public speaker and strongly believes in educating social workers about the funding options available for our veterans and surviving spouses to receive in-home care. He is certified by the National Association of Social Workers – New Jersey Chapter (NASW-NJ) to provide training and issue “VA Benefits for Long Term Care” continuing education credits (CEU’s).

Heidi Friedman

General Council

Heidi is a distinguished VA accredited attorney and one of a few Florida Board Certified Elder Law Attorneys. With an unwavering commitment to honoring veterans and their families, Heidi has dedicated her career to providing expert legal assistance to veterans and their surviving spouses in obtaining VA Aid and Attendance benefits to assist with paying for the extraordinary cost of long-term care. Throughout her legal career, Heidi has amassed a wealth of experience in navigating the intricate landscape of VA benefits. Her expertise extends to advocating for veterans and surviving spouses, ensuring they receive the support they rightfully deserve.

Beyond her legal expertise, Heidi shares deep personal connections with the military community. As the proud sister of two army veterans and an aunt to a nephew currently serving in the armed services, her dedication goes far beyond professional duties. This unique perspective drives her passion for supporting those who have selflessly served our nation.

Heidi’s in-depth understanding of Elder Law and VA regulations has empowered numerous veterans to access essential benefits and resources. She possesses a rare ability to simplify complex legal processes, making it accessible for veterans and their families to navigate their journey smoothly. While her professional achievements are impressive, Heidi is not defined solely by her legal endeavors. She is the proud mother of two sons, one of whom has special needs, enriching her perspective and reinforcing her commitment to helping families navigate challenges with empathy and understanding.