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Home / Korean War Veteran Jack Lary’s Views on Black History & His Role in St. Louis History

Korean War Veteran Jack Lary’s Views on Black History & His Role in St. Louis History

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Korean War Veteran Jack Lary’s Views on Black History & His Role in St. Louis History

February 16, 2022
Written by
Karolina Szot HungryMedia

To celebrate Black History Month, we’re spotlighting Jack Lary a VetAssist client and one of the few remaining African American veterans of the 25th Infantry Division who served during the Korean War. The Missouri Historical Society interviewed Lary in 2019 to collect the oral histories of St. Louis area veterans and their families for the city’s Soldiers Memorial Military Museum. Lary has also donated photos from his collection to the Missouri Historical Society. Having served on the St. Louis City’s Election Board, Jack Lary played a role in St. Louis history. Now in his nineties, Jack shares how he remains well-cared for and active.

Drafted into the Army

What is one of the first things Korean War Veteran, Jack Lary remembers about his time in the military? The needles he faced upon arriving at Camp Chaffee for basic training (bootcamp) in the early 1950s. Whether or not he fainted during the vaccination process is still debated. But, as a recently drafted soldier with the Army’s 25th Infantry Division, one thing was for sure. He had no idea what lay ahead of him.

Young Jack Larry of St. Louis was drafted into the Army during the Korean War serving about nine months in Korea.

Memories of the Korean War

Lary was deployed to Korea and spent nearly nine months there. The 25th Infantry Division was involved in the recapture of Yechon, which was considered the first sizable ground victory for the U.S. In fact, the Congressional Record and the press praised the African American soldiers citing, “First U.S. victory in Korea won by negro GIs.” His division was also a vital contributor to the decisive victory at Inchon, which led to the successful recapture of the South Korean capital.

While he may have expected the constant battles and never-ending soundtrack of war, there were a few things he was not prepared for. The bitter cold that took North Korea by surprise, and for which the Army was completely unprepared, is something Jack Lary will never forget. The Army lacked the appropriate gear to keep warm, and soldiers suffered for it. They were forced to build campfires out of anything they could get their hands on, including straw left near Korean rice paddies – until the enemy realized an opportunity and began booby-trapping the precious kindling with grenades. Frostbite was one of the biggest medical concerns during the first winter in Korea, with many soldiers losing fingers, toes, and ears to the cold.

Civilian Life and Business Career

The other thing that stuck with Jack Lary all these years – the suffering he witnessed. “I used to give my rations and fig cookies away to the kids,” says Lary. Perhaps one of the most difficult parts of war was not experienced on the frontlines, but upon returning home. After years spent observing suffering on a scale he hadn’t realized existed, Jack returned to a country full of fortunate souls, protected from that type of misery for nearly a century. Those surrounding him simply had no clue how lucky they were. “It was rough coming home,” he said. “It was rough coming back from Korea to that.”

In civilian life, he returned to school on the GI bill and was employed at the St. Louis Army Ammunition Plant, which produced small arms ammunition such as bullets. Lary’s job included shooting and checking bullets. After that, he worked at the Federal Reserve Bank. Eventually, he opened his own company, Lark Office Machines, with clients such as Boatmen’s Bank and Monsanto, two large employers instrumental in St. Louis history. That led him to become active in the Republican Party.

“The business got very high-tech. I couldn’t keep up with it, so I sold it to Cardinal Business,“ says Lary. From 2006 to 2015 at 84 years old, he served on the St. Louis Election Board.

Political Interests & St. Louis History

“I was appointed to the St. Louis Election Board by Republican Governor Matt Blunt,” says Lary. “Then when Jay Nixon, a democrat, became governor he appointed me too. I served on the board to do good for the City of St. Louis. I didn’t go to play politics and play games. I didn’t go to serve the Democrats or Republicans. I went to serve the people.”

Lary says these days our country is too polarized and divided by party lines. “I believe in America, not red states or blue states.” He says he watches ABC News every morning and has strong opinions of the January 6 riot at the Capitol. “Even though I’m a Republican, I believe Joe Biden won the election and Biden is my president. Most people only want to vote in presidential elections. People need to vote in state and local elections.”

American History Rather Than Black History

When asked about the importance of Black History Month, Lary was very clear. “I believe in America. Martin Luther King did a good job but no one taught people how to live as Americans. I don’t look at it as black and white. I’m American.”

Lary says he may have as many white friends as he has black. “I can call them and they’ll be here. I don’t believe in all this separation.”

Choosing the VetAssist Program

Lary says he can’t recall how he found out about the VetAssist Program, a service of Veterans Home Care. “I got glaucoma and had to stop driving. I like to prepare for the worse.” Realizing he needed help for daily activities, he turned to Lori Reams, Regional Manager at Veterans Home Care.

Veterans Home Care is a family-owned business that specializes in securing the VA Aid and Attendance benefit for veterans (or their surviving spouses) who wish to use the funds for in-home caregivers. Help with the VA application is free. Home care aides are billed at the local market rate but the cost is offset by the VA benefit. Home care service is received with no out-of-pocket costs.

Lary is routinely called by Jeremy Settlemyer, a navy veteran and case manager at Veterans Home Care. “I enjoy talking to Jeremy… he served on a submarine.” Jeremy assists clients with any letters they receive from the VA and helps them remain in compliance with their medical expenses to maintain the monthly monetary benefit.

Jack Lary keeps in touch with VetAssist Regional Manager Lori Reams and considers her a good friend. Lori’s job includes securing the VA Aid and Attendance benefit for veterans and surviving spouses who qualify and connecting them with services from home care providers.

Griswold Home Care

Veterans Home Care contracts with a network of providers such as Griswold Home Care of St. Charles. Lary now has a caregiver from Griswold who helps with personal care, household chores and transportation. “They’re doing a good job.” His caregiver drives him to the grocery store, or to the VA to see his doctor or to pick up his medicines.

Well Cared For and Enjoying Life 

Between going to the VA for medical care, having a home care aide from Griswold and getting assistance from Veterans Home Care, Lary says, he has no problems. “They take good care of me and I’m still enjoying life.”

Learn More

To learn more about the VetAssist Program for wartime veterans or their surviving spouses, call 888-314-6075 or email info@veteranshomecare.com

Read more about Jack Lary and other St. Louis veterans who will go down in St. Louis history and American history here: https://mohistory.org/blog/black-history-month

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Saul Avila, SetxHomeCare

“VetAssist is a great service. There are benefits and services available that veterans don’t know about. Nurses and social workers dont’t know about them either, so it’s great to educate the community. The veterans can get services at home, and that’s where they want to be: in their homes.

How long have you been working with VetAssist

“7 years”

What’s your experience working with VetAssist?

“I started with the local Regional Manager. He was a huge help getting this going – the process of helping patients get their documents together, everything they need to get approval. “

What do you thing about the service?

“It’s great! It’s really needed in the community, because if the veterans were to apply for the benefits on their own, they are looking at a year process. We can start services usually within 30-45 days of everything being submitted. They’re able to stay in their own homes longer and get the help they need. “

What has been your experience helping veterans?

“It’s been a honor. They do not want to ask for anything. They want to do it on their own. When we reach out and tell them what’s available, they are very greatful. It means that a lot to me to be able to get it started for them, to make it easier on them. It’s a lot of paperwork.”

Cindy Stamps, AccentCare in Waco, Texas
with VHC Regional Manager, Nicole Figureo

“I’m a daughter, aunt, niece, and cousin of veteran, I did my research among companies similar services before I started working with VetAssist. I have exclusively worked with VetAssist for my veteras for three years.”

How long have you been working with VetAssist

“Exclusively for 3 years; did her research among companies with similar services”

What’s your experience working with Nicole?

“3 years. Also has a private pay; was doing her referrals, got a call from a girl with a strong NY accent looking for Marlena.”

What do you thing about the service?

“I love it because it’s easy to get in contact. They do what they say they’re gonna do. If there’s a mistake or miscommunication, they own up to whatever the problem is and do whatever they can to get it fixed. I have a Robin’s personal cell, David’s personal cel… They take the time to talk to me. I’ve been having problems with portal. It’s nice to know that if I have a question I will get it answered right away.I’m not patient when it comes to my veterans. “

What has been your experience helping veterans?

“It’s amazing. The VA do the veterans justice, and they are even less accomodating to the spouses. To know that I am able to help somebody to get the benefit and the care that they need to stay in their home is satisfying. I had to talk to a veteran the other day about his wife, and they do not qualify for the benefits because he’s already 100 % disabled. It breaks my heart because here are these men and women who served our country, and I can’t help them.”

“In central TX, we have a couple other agencies – I do not know how they are getting away with it – they are charging veterans $1200-1500 up front without a quarantee that they can get them benefits. The veterans reach out to me later and many tell me they do not qualify, and I say, how do you know you do not qualify?” I am often able to help them trough my VetAssist contact”

“I’m so thankful for Bonnie starting this company. I am very particular with my veterans, and I am gratefull that you guys are around, because you help me help my veterans.”

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Robin Borders

Vice President, Sales

With more than a decade of senior care experience, Robin Borders is a respected leader in the home care industry.

Robin started at Veterans Home Care in 2012 in the Client Services Department, then joined the marketing team as a regional manager and was promoted to territory vice president. As a client service specialist, Robin monitored the home care of clients assuring they were getting the services they needed from a home care aide they trusted. Working as a regional manager, Robin made home visits to veterans and their families explaining the VetAssist Program.

Robin is instrumental in marketing our unique business model, educating the public on how we help people apply for a VA pension with Aid and Attendance and provide home care services. As a territory manager, Robin works with home care agencies and senior organizations across the country.

Prior to working at Veterans Home Care, Robin owned her own business as a manufacturer’s representative of restaurant equipment managing four states. Robin, a daughter of a Marine Korean War veteran and granddaughter of a Navy WWII veteran, grew up in St. Louis, Missouri and graduated with an associate degree from Florissant Valley Community College. Robin volunteers for the Alzheimer’s Association and is a member of the St. Louis Home Care Alliance.

Robin is a sought-after speaker and presenter based at our St. Louis, Missouri headquarters and oversees regional managers and company growth in 48 states

Howard Laiderman

Chairman

Howard began his career in his family’s automotive tire and auto parts wholesale and retail business which at one time was ranked 8th largest US tire dealer by Crane Publishing. He developed his skills in operations and executed marketing programs that resulted in sales from Fortune 500 companies including Walmart.

After the passing of Howard’s father, he ventured out on his own and started Ness Trading Company. With the help of his wife Bonnie and their two daughters, his new family operation quickly grew to one of the largest closeout and surplus specialists in the automotive parts and custom wheels industry.

Since 2003, Howard has worked with Bonnie growing Veterans Home Care to become the largest company of its kind offering in-home care to our deserving veterans through the unique VetAssist Program. Howard has been an integral part of the organization’s effort to brand the VetAssist Program and scale the business through provider contracting and client relationship management (CRM) technology.

Today Veterans Home Care has multiple locations throughout the country, and serves veterans in 48 states with a network of more than 4,000 home care providers. Veterans Home Care has also earned the Better Business Bureau’s Torch Award for Ethics and the Inc. 5000 Award of Fastest Growing Companies seven times.

Howard supports national veterans’ organizations and travels to Capitol Hill advocating for veterans and educating policymakers about the needs of veterans.

Bonnie Laiderman

Founder and Chairwoman Emeritus

As the founder and owner of Veterans Home Care®, Bonnie Laiderman has helped more than 20,000 veterans and their spouses receive in-home care through the unique VetAssist® Program.

Bonnie started the business in 2003 to answer a need in the military veteran community. Many veterans and their families don’t utilize available benefits from the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) due to a lack of awareness. As a caregiver for her late mother, Bonnie personally experienced the frustration of failing to access available VA benefits in her mother’s time of need.

Bonnie has overseen the growth of the company from a one-woman operation to become one of the largest women-owned companies in the St. Louis Metro Region with multiple locations throughout the country, serving veterans in 48 states with a network of more than 4,000 home care providers.

Veterans Home Care has also earned the Better Business Bureau’s Torch Award for Ethics and the Inc. 5000 Award of Fastest Growing Companies seven times.

Bonnie personally has been recognized with numerous awards including the:

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  • McKnight’s News Publications’ Hall of Honor
  • Missouri Athletic Club’s Women of Distinction
  • St. Louis Business Journal’s Most Influential Women
  • Ingrams Magazine’s 50 People You Should Know and
  • Missouri Council for In-Home Service’s

In addition to growing Veterans Home Care to become the largest provider of its kind in the industry, Bonnie has been a strong supporter of numerous charitable and social organizations with both a local and national impact. Wings of Hope and Lydia’s House have both benefited from Bonnie’s support to continue services to our most vulnerable in need. Bonnie also is active in the American Red Cross as: a Tiffany Circle member, (a national society of women leaders), a chairperson for the Service Armed Forces Committee and a mentor in the Society of Women Leaders.

Carmen Perry-Tevaga

Vice President, Strategic Partnerships

As Vice President of National Accounts, Carmen develops and supports a nationwide network of home care and other senior care providers for Veterans Home Care’s brands. Carmen is responsible for these valued stakeholder relationships, identifying sales opportunities and developing comprehensive growth strategies for all parties involved.

Carmen’s 20+ years of healthcare administration experience spans multiple levels of care from physician practices to renown hospitals and rehabilitation services.

Having an extensive consulting background and subject matter expertise in VA Aid and Attendance benefits for older adult care, she’s a well-received speaker, podcast guest and presenter.

Carmen serves on the Home Care Association of America’s (HCAOA) Veterans Affairs Committee and serves as a board member for the National Aging In Place Council, (NAIPC) with whom she co-wrote a book on senior care.

Donna Appel

Vice President, Marketing

In her role as Vice President, Marketing, Donna oversees VHC’s marketing outreach and branding. Donna has more than 35 years of experience in sales, sales training and marketing.

Her wealth of business expertise includes a focus on the needs of older adults, caregivers and family members in need of home care solutions. She’s a resource to veterans’ organizations and senior care providers across the country and champions the mission to assist veterans, their spouses and their families with resources for them to age in place.

Those resources include the VetAssist® Program, which helps deserving veterans stay at home, if it is their choice, by obtaining home care with no out of pocket cost. As a daughter (and daughter-in-law) of a WWII veteran and a Veterans Home Care client, Donna is proud to serve these heroes and their families.

Donna is a member of the Veterans Council of Broward County and is currently on the Advisory Council for the Aging and Disability Resource Center of Broward County. Ms. Appel also mentors at risk teenagers through Take Stock in Children, an organization that funds college scholarships for at risk youth. Donna is part of a team for the Stepp’n Up Shoe Project that collects new shoes for Broward County children and distributes them to The Children’s Home Society, Child Net, Kids in Distress, The Anne Stork Center and several other organizations.

Marcy Seeney

Senior Vice President of VetAssist

Marcy Seeney, a dedicated advocate for senior care, has been an integral part of Veterans Home Care since January 2006. With a wealth of experience in the industry, Marcy was among the pioneering team members who joined her family on the company’s mission to support Veterans and Surviving Spouses in accessing essential care while maintaining their independence and dignity at home.

Over her remarkable 17-year journey, they have positively impacted over 22,000 families by facilitating their eligibility for the Aid & Attendance pension. Marcy is passionate about serving others and ensuring their well-being. Marcy continues to make a difference through her unwavering commitment to excellence in senior care. Networking in this space, she led the way for St. Louis and helped teach and train those who have gone on in the community to careers in home care.

Evan Kaltman

Chief Revenue Officer

Since opening the local Veterans Home Care NYJ office in 2009, Evan has overseen the expansion of the operations to include all of New Jersey as well as Pennsylvania, New York and Delaware. Evan is based at our Cedar Knolls, New Jersey office and leads sales operations nationwide.

Evan is a member of the New Jersey Association of Veterans Service Officers (NJAVSO). In addition, he serves as a board member for Welcome Home Vets of NJ.

Evan is a sought-after public speaker and strongly believes in educating social workers about the funding options available for our veterans and surviving spouses to receive in-home care. He is certified by the National Association of Social Workers – New Jersey Chapter (NASW-NJ) to provide training and issue “VA Benefits for Long Term Care” continuing education credits (CEU’s).

Heidi Friedman

General Council

Heidi is a distinguished VA accredited attorney and one of a few Florida Board Certified Elder Law Attorneys. With an unwavering commitment to honoring veterans and their families, Heidi has dedicated her career to providing expert legal assistance to veterans and their surviving spouses in obtaining VA Aid and Attendance benefits to assist with paying for the extraordinary cost of long-term care. Throughout her legal career, Heidi has amassed a wealth of experience in navigating the intricate landscape of VA benefits. Her expertise extends to advocating for veterans and surviving spouses, ensuring they receive the support they rightfully deserve.

Beyond her legal expertise, Heidi shares deep personal connections with the military community. As the proud sister of two army veterans and an aunt to a nephew currently serving in the armed services, her dedication goes far beyond professional duties. This unique perspective drives her passion for supporting those who have selflessly served our nation.

Heidi’s in-depth understanding of Elder Law and VA regulations has empowered numerous veterans to access essential benefits and resources. She possesses a rare ability to simplify complex legal processes, making it accessible for veterans and their families to navigate their journey smoothly. While her professional achievements are impressive, Heidi is not defined solely by her legal endeavors. She is the proud mother of two sons, one of whom has special needs, enriching her perspective and reinforcing her commitment to helping families navigate challenges with empathy and understanding.